Success happens when you understand yourself and are more self-aware. Successful leadership happens when you are aware of yourself and your impact on others. Role montage is a tool that helps you to recognize your behaviors and those of people around you. Recognizing your patterns of old behaviors that you don't need to do any longer is a first step toward choice. Choice provides the opportunity to change. We can choose to make the necessary changes and be more successful or we can stay the way we are and probably not be as successful. David Rock calls insight "the secret sauce" of change. He poses a challenge to leaders and consultants to bring people to insight by focusing on solutions vs. problem and facilitating awareness, reflection and action. with these steps, we can make a difference and be successful leaders.